At Rebirth Holistic Counselling, I use a range of compassionate and effective techniques to guide you gently through the emotional, mental, and physical changes of matrescence—supporting you as you transform into motherhood.

  • Motherhood is a beautiful, but often chaotic, experience. From the excitement of pregnancy to the sleepless nights of a newborn, it’s easy to feel disconnected from your center. Mindfulness practices help you tune in to the present moment, creating a sense of calm and clarity amidst the whirlwind of emotions.

    Breathwork is an essential part of mindfulness. It allows you to release stress, calm your nervous system, and reconnect with your body. Whether you’re in the early stages of pregnancy or navigating the challenges of a toddler, taking just a few minutes to focus on your breath can bring you back to a place of peace and balance. In our sessions, we may use breathing exercises such as diaphragmatic breathing or grounding breath techniques to help you center yourself and reduce anxiety or overwhelm.

  • Motherhood often brings up unresolved emotions from our own childhood, especially as we reflect on the kind of mother we want to be. Inner child work is an approach that invites you to reconnect with the parts of yourself that need healing. This technique involves understanding how your past experiences and the messages you received as a child are impacting the way you show up as a mother today.

    During our sessions, we might use guided visualizations or creative expression (such as journaling, drawing, or role-playing) to connect with your inner child. By honoring the young part of you that was once innocent, joyful, and vulnerable, you can release old wounds and step into a more empowered, compassionate version of yourself. This healing journey is essential during matrescence, as it allows you to embrace the nurturing aspects of motherhood while also taking care of your own inner needs.

  • The emotional journey of becoming a mother can be intense, and often, there are layers of unresolved feelings or past traumas that need to be processed. Whether it’s the loss of a pregnancy, feelings of guilt or shame, or past experiences of neglect or abuse, I create a safe and non-judgmental space for you to explore and release these emotions.

    Using somatic techniques (which involve the body’s sensations), talk therapy, and gentle trauma-informed care, we can work together to release pent-up emotions and create space for healing. This is a crucial aspect of matrescence: becoming a mother means integrating your past while making room for the new. By gently uncovering and healing emotional wounds, you’ll find yourself feeling more grounded, compassionate, and resilient as you step into your new role.

  • The postpartum period is a time of significant physical and emotional change. As you navigate the early days of motherhood, the pressure to “bounce back” can feel overwhelming. Holistic counseling during this time focuses on supporting your body’s recovery, honoring the emotional rollercoaster that often accompanies new motherhood, and cultivating self-compassion.

    We’ll discuss practical tips for creating balance, setting healthy boundaries, and managing expectations. From establishing a postpartum care plan to discussing ways to ask for support, our work together will help you transition into this new phase of motherhood with more ease and confidence. This is part of matrescence – the shift from womanhood to motherhood – and we’ll explore how to honor both parts of your identity in this new chapter of life.

  • Becoming a mother often means putting your needs on the backburner, but self-care is vital for your well-being. Through our sessions, we’ll discuss practical, holistic self-care practices that nourish your mind, body, and spirit.

    From ritual baths and yoga to journaling and meditation, I’ll help you create simple daily rituals that are tailored to your unique needs as a mother. These practices help you stay connected to your true self, even in the midst of the demands of motherhood. You deserve to feel cared for, and these rituals will remind you of your own worth and power.

  • For mothers-to-be, preparing for birth is not just about physical readiness, but also emotional and mental preparedness. We’ll work together to explore your feelings, fears, and expectations surrounding birth, and create a personalized birth plan that honors your wishes and desires.

    After birth, I offer postpartum support to help you navigate the early weeks and months with confidence. This includes emotional support, recovery strategies, and creating a nurturing space for you to heal physically and emotionally. I’ll guide you in honoring your body’s needs and helping you integrate your birth experience into your identity as a mother. Through this, you will be supported during matrescence – the birth of not just your child, but of your motherhood identity.